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The 6-Month Group Coaching Program for Women Rebuilding After Divorce

Your Relationship Reinvention

POV: You’re two years post-separation, telling yourself you should feel free by now, but instead…
  • You’re caught between moving on and still grieving the life you thought you’d have.
  • You wonder if you’ll ever feel like yourself again—or if that version of you is gone for good.
  • You second-guess everything—your choices, your worth, your ability to trust again… and the terrifying thought: What if I choose wrong again?

Everyone says time heals, but deep down, you know: 

Right now, it might feel like you’re piecing yourself back together, trying to make sense of what’s next. The loneliness, the overthinking, the fear of starting over—it’s a lot.

And if betrayal was part of your story?


It adds another layer. The gaslighting. The self-doubt. The wondering if everything was a lie.
You’re not just grieving the relationship—you’re grieving the version of yourself who once believed in it.




You didn’t survive this just to settle for an okay life.




You deserve more than just moving on. You deserve to rebuild your life in a way that feels safe, fulfilling, and deeply yours.
  • No more questioning if you’re enough. You are.
  • No more carrying guilt that was never yours to hold. It’s time to let it go.
  • No more questioning if you're asking for too much. You'll know what you need, and you won’t feel guilty for expecting it. You can—and you will.

Time alone isn’t enough.

But here's the Truth...You weren’t "too much." You weren’t "the problem" And you are "not broken".

Your Relationship Reinvention

isn’t just about healing—it’s about stepping into the woman you were always meant to be.

This is your turning point. 

The moment you stop just existing and start reclaiming who you are.

From heartbreak and self-doubt to full confidence and emotional freedom—this is where you reclaim your life.

Because after betrayal, emotional exhaustion, and years of over-giving, it’s not just your heart that’s afraid—it’s your nervous system.

And that’s why inside Your Relationship Reinvention, we don’t just talk about trusting yourself again—we reprogram the deep-seated patterns that make trust feel unsafe in the first place.

  • So you can tell the difference between real connection and old wounds masquerading as chemistry.
  • So you rebuild self-trust, making decisions from confidence—not fear
  • So you recognize red flags before you’re emotionally invested, instead of “learning the hard way” again.
  • So you stop questioning whether you’re too much and start owning your standards—without apology.




  • You keep saying yes to people who drain you, hoping this time will be different.

  • You over-give in friendships, work, or family relationships, even when it leaves you exhausted.

  • You tell yourself you just need to be stronger next time—like it’s a willpower issue instead of a pattern that needs breaking.

You know these patterns all too well:

  • “What if I never meet someone who truly sees me?”

  • “What if I end up in the same painful dynamic again?”

  • “What if I can’t trust myself to choose better?”

The fear isn’t just being alone—it’s the thought that maybe you’re not loveable.

That if you had been “more,” the relationship would have worked.

That if you couldn’t see the red flags before, how will you trust yourself to choose better next time?

But then the doubts creep in…

Because this next chapter isn’t about healing your past—it’s about owning your future.

Your Relationship Reinvention

is where you stop settling and start becoming the woman who leads her life—not just survives it

You’re Ready for Reinvention When "Getting By" Isn’t Cutting It Anymore.

You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books, had the aha moments, maybe even gone to therapy. But let’s be real—knowing the patterns doesn’t mean you’re free from them.

It’s time to go beyond just understanding yourself to feeling different for good.




  • Over catching yourself in the same patterns, even when you swore you wouldn’t.
  • Over over-functioning in relationships where you're giving everything and getting crumbs in return.
  • Over doing everything “right” and still feeling disconnected from the love and life you know you’re meant for.
  • Over self-soothing your way through relationships instead of being in ones that feel safe from the start.
  • Over lying awake at night, wondering if you’ll ever love again—or if you’re going to be alone forever.
  • Over questioning if you can even trust yourself in love again.


AND LET'S BE HONEST

YOU'RE OVER IT!

This is exactly why we work on self-trust first—so that next time, you don’t choose from fear. You choose from power.

But these aren’t just passing worries—they’re deep-seated schemas like Emotional Deprivation, Defectiveness, Abandonment, and Mistrust that keep you stuck in toxic loops.

This isn’t just possible — it’s yours to claim..

  • Emotional freedom—to stop getting pulled into the same cycles, over-giving, or questioning if you’re asking for too much.

  • Unshakable self-trust—so you never again entertain relationships that leave you second-guessing your worth
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  • Boundaries that feel natural—where saying no doesn’t come with guilt, over-explaining, or worrying about someone else’s reaction.

  • Confidence that speaks for itself—so you walk into any room (or relationship) knowing exactly who you are and what you bring to the table.

  • Protection against emotional manipulation—You’ll learn to recognize, recover from, and safeguard yourself against narcissistic tactics like gaslighting, love bombing, and blame-shifting—so you never again question your reality or lose yourself trying to "fix" someone who refuses to change.

  • Relationships that actually meet you—connections where you feel seen, chosen, and deeply respected, instead of settling for breadcrumbs.

  • A life that feels like yours—not one shaped by past heartbreaks, fear, or trying to be what someone else needs.

What You Actually Want Is…

And guess what?

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The Creation of Your Relationship Reinvention

When we work together, you’ll see just how much life is waiting for you:

  • We’ll take the stories you’ve been carrying—the ones that kept you small—and rewrite them with radical self-compassion and an unshakable sense of worth.

  • We’ll rewire the patterns keeping you stuck, so you never again feel like you have to prove your worth, over-give, or stay in relationships where you feel unseen, unchosen, or emotionally drained.

  • You’ll step into a version of yourself who moves through life with certainty, self-trust, and the quiet confidence that you are more than enough.

I’m Justine, and I help women break free from old relationship patterns and step into the kind of self-trust that changes everything.

Over 20 years, as a Clinical Psychologist and now as a coach, I’ve guided hundreds of women through some of the most pivotal transformations of their lives—helping them move from self-doubt and emotional exhaustion to confidence, clarity, and deep self-respect.

Many of the women I work with come to me after years in relationships with emotionally unavailable, manipulative, or narcissistic partners. They’ve been gaslit, made to feel like they were too much or not enough, and left questioning their own reality.

If that’s been your experience, hear this loud and clear:
  • You were not too sensitive.
  • You did not imagine it.
  • And it was never your fault.
But understanding what happened isn’t enough to break the pattern. Because if you don’t rewire the part of you that once accepted breadcrumbs as love, that dynamic will show up again—in dating, in friendships, even in how you treat yourself.

  • The version of you who over-functioned, proved your worth, and settled for crumbs isn’t the version who will create the life you actually want. That’s exactly what we rewire inside Your Relationship Reinvention.

The answer isn’t just “healing.” It’s emotional mastery, self-reclamation, and a framework that evolves with you—so you’re not just recovering from your past, but actively shaping a future that feels deeply yours.

You won’t just feel whole again — you’ll feel like the most powerful version of yourself.

You don’t need years of therapy to get there. You just need the right tools and the willingness to step into the version of yourself that’s been waiting all along.

And the best part?

Most of my clients experience profound shifts faster than they ever imagined—not just in their relationships, but in how they lead, how they make decisions, and how they move through life with certainty.

And if you're worried healing means starting all over again—rest assured, it doesn’t.

Your Relationship Reinvention isn't about 'undoing' your journey or fearing setbacks. Instead, it’s about honoring and integrating your experiences, gently reshaping them into a foundation for steady, sustainable growth. Every step is designed to feel clear, achievable, and supportive—no overwhelm, just consistent progress toward the life you genuinely desire.

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Let's turn 'Getting By' into full reinvention!

— and why it matters:

What’s Inside Your Relationship Reinvention?

You’ll leave every session with:

  • Practical, actionable shifts—so you know exactly what to do next.

  • Live mindset & nervous system rewiring—so the work isn’t just theoretical, it’s embodied.

  •  Real-time support & feedback—so you don’t just process things alone, you actually move through them.

No more guessing. No more overthinking. Just real transformation, in real time.
This isn’t another “think positive and move on” self-help course. This is a deep, immersive coaching experience designed to help you unravel old patterns, rebuild trust in yourself, and finally step into the life you actually want.

With a small, intimate group and high-touch support, you’ll have everything you need to shift, rise, and create relationships that feel safe, mutual, and deeply fulfilling.
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Here’s exactly what you’ll get
From navigating dating after divorce to rebuilding self-trust after betrayal, this exclusive masterclass series will equip you with the tools to step into your next chapter with confidence and clarity.
2 x Live Group Coaching Sessions Per Month. 

These aren’t just calls—they’re real-time rewiring sessions.

Every session is designed to actively shift the thoughts, patterns, and habits that have kept you stuck for years. We’ll go beyond just talking about change—you’ll experience it happening in the moment.

Through deep coaching, targeted exercises, and live breakthroughs, you’ll start rewiring old relationship patterns, strengthening your self-trust, and learning exactly how to step into a new way of being—without guilt, fear, or emotional exhaustion.

Private Telegram Support, Monday to Thursday. 

You’ll never have to navigate triggers, self-doubt, or tough decisions alone. Drop your questions, share your wins, or just get a reality check when you need it. This is where the real shifts happen—day to day, moment to moment.

(Sign up before [Date] and receive an additional 90 minutes, worth $1k)

90-Minute 1:1 Deep Dive Strategy Session

We kick off with an intensive, fully personalized strategy session to map out your reinvention journey. By the end of this session, you’ll have a clear, grounded plan to rebuild confidence, set boundaries without guilt, and step into relationships that reflect your worth.
Monthly Deep Dive Workshops on Boundaries, Self-Worth & Emotional Mastery

We’re not here for surface-level advice. Each month, we go deep into the patterns keeping you stuck—so boundaries feel natural, self-trust becomes automatic, and emotional freedom isn’t just a concept—it’s how you live.
Bonus: Relationship Rebuilding Masterclass Series

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Think of this as your personalised transformation vault—a curated collection of powerful tools, frameworks, and guided exercises that help you shift at the deepest level. These aren’t theories—they’re the exact strategies my clients have used to create radical, lasting change.
Access to Exclusive Reinvention Resources

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Whenever I release new trainings, insights, or resources, you get full access—so you always have what you need to keep moving forward.
Everything I Create While We’re Together

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This is everything you need to break free from old patterns, reclaim your emotional sovereignty, and finally build relationships that reflect the woman you’re becoming.

Real Women, Real Transformation

  • Caught between the heartbreak of repeated betrayals and the relentless demands of caring for an aging parent. She felt like she was constantly putting out fires—managing crises, over-functioning in every relationship, and never having a moment to just breathe.

    Using the same framework inside Your Relationship Reinvention, she rewired the self-doubt that kept her stuck in this cycle. Now? She trusts herself fully, sets clear boundaries without guilt, and has rebuilt a life that finally feels peaceful—and hers.




  • Walking on eggshells in a relationship where her confidence was slowly eroded by emotional manipulation. Every time she tried to express a need, she was met with blame, dismissal, or guilt-tripping.

    Through our work together—using the exact methods inside Your Relationship Reinvention—she broke free from the cycle of over-explaining, set boundaries without second-guessing, and finally felt heard in her relationships. Now, she doesn’t just know her worth—she lives it.




  • After her divorce, she couldn’t shake the fear that she would attract the same kind of relationship again. She questioned every decision, overanalyzed every interaction, and felt paralyzed by “what ifs.” But inside Your Relationship Reinvention, she learned how to rewire the patterns keeping her stuck, strengthen her self-trust, and choose relationships that actually honored her.

    Today, she moves through love and life with clarity, confidence, and an unwavering sense of self-worth.  These transformations happened because they did the deep work to shift their patterns—not just understand them. Inside Your Relationship Reinvention, you’ll access the same tools, frameworks, and strategies that changed their lives.

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If you’re ready for your own transformation, this is where it starts.

Sophie was terrified of repeating her past. 
Anna was drowning in emotional exhaustion
Emma spent years feeling like she was “too much,”
  • Rewire old relationship patterns so they no longer run the show.
  • Trust yourself so deeply that decisions feel solid and guilt-free.
  • Set the standard—in love, in friendships, in every part of your life.
  • Hold your boundaries with confidence—so the right people rise to meet you.
  • Anchor into unshakable self-worth—so second-guessing what you deserve is no longer even a thought.

When your self-worth is solid, and your self-respect is unshakable, everything shifts:

When Your Self-Worth Is Unshakable, Everything Changes.

No stress. No guilt. No settling.

Your Relationship Reinvention isn’t just about healing from the past.
It’s about stepping into a future where self-worth leads every decision, self-respect sets every boundary, and you never again question if you’re asking for too much.

It’s walking away without explaining yourself. It’s feeling calm instead of anxious. It’s knowing you’re not asking for too much—you were just asking the wrong person.

Because

when you truly know your worth, you stop negotiating for it.

If you've spent countless nights wondering, 'Is it me? Am I the one who's broken?', let this be your sign: You were never the problem. You’ve been carrying a weight that was never yours to hold. In Your Relationship Reinvention, you'll finally break free from that self-blame and step into relationships that honor you—without you ever needing to earn your worth again.

because you were never broken.

This isn’t about fixing yourself — 

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 I’M ready to rise, rebuild and honour myself fully!

Inside Your Relationship Reinvention, you’ll learn how to:

  • You stop chasing people who were never capable of meeting you.
  • You stop explaining yourself to those who never really listened.
  • You start attracting relationships that feel mutual, safe, and deeply fulfilling.
  • You make decisions from clarity and self-trust—not fear or scarcity. 
  • You stop accepting crumbs when you were meant for the whole damn feast.

It all starts inside.

Self-worth is the foundation—it’s the quiet, steady belief that you deserve more.
Self-respect is the action—it’s how you enforce that belief in every choice, every boundary, every relationship.

  • Self-worth that feels unshakable. No more over-explaining, people-pleasing, or wondering if you’re “too much.” You’ll stand in your worth, fully and unapologetically.

  • Boundaries that feel like second nature. Saying no won’t trigger guilt. You’ll know where you stand, what you need, and how to communicate it—without spiraling, over-explaining, or questioning yourself.

  • Emotional steadiness, no matter what. When life throws challenges your way, you won’t lose yourself in the reaction. You’ll have the tools to navigate emotions with clarity and self-trust, so your past no longer runs the show.

  • Confidence that changes how people treat you. When you back yourself, others rise to meet you. You’ll carry yourself differently—and the people around you will notice.

  • Clarity that finally feels like relief. No more overthinking. No more wondering if you’re asking for too much. Whether it’s relationships, decisions, or next steps, you’ll trust yourself in a way that makes everything feel simpler, clearer, and lighter.

  • Spot emotional triggers before they take over.

  • Rewire the beliefs that lead to over-functioning, people-pleasing, or perfectionism.

  • Respond with clarity and calm instead of reacting impulsively.

  • Create relationships that reflect your true self, free from drama or self-doubt.

Here’s What Else You’re Getting Inside Your Relationship Reinvention:

  • Why do you keep over-functioning in relationships, even when you’re exhausted?

  • Why do you suppress your needs or silence your voice?

  • Why do you feel stuck in people-pleasing or perfectionism?

Your Relationship Reinvention

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This isn’t just about healing—it’s about becoming the kind of woman who trusts herself deeply, sets the standard in every relationship, and moves through life knowing she deserves what she wants.

When it comes to breaking free from old relationship patterns and reclaiming self-worth, I don’t just teach this—I’ve lived it, studied it, and helped countless women transform through it.

📈 Years of guiding women through radical reinvention. I’ve helped clients move from heartbreak, self-doubt, and people-pleasing into confidence, clarity, and deeply fulfilling relationships—starting with the one they have with themselves.

🎯 Real shifts, real results. This isn’t about surface-level self-help or empty affirmations. Women inside this program don’t just feel better—they become unrecognizable in the best way possible. Stronger. Calmer. More self-assured than they ever thought they could be.

🚀 A process that works—because it’s built for real life. This isn’t about forcing yourself into a mindset you don’t believe in. It’s about rewiring the patterns that have kept you stuck so that confidence, boundaries, and self-respect become second nature.




Until you shift from anxious to secure attachment and break your schema-driven patterns,, emotionally unavailable people will always feel the most compelling. It’s why you might find yourself drawn to the same painful dynamics—even when you know better.

That’s why willpower alone won’t break these patterns. It’s not about “just choosing differently.” You have to rewire how your body responds to love, safety, and connection—so the healthy, reciprocal relationships you crave actually feel natural instead of unfamiliar.

Inside Your Relationship Reinvention, we don’t just talk about healing—we reprogram the way you experience relationships on a deep, nervous system level. So you don’t just recognize what’s toxic—you stop feeling pulled toward it altogether.

This isn’t a “just love yourself” pep talk. It’s deep work, grounded in psychology, neuroscience, and lived experience. And it’s exactly what I’ll guide you through inside Your Relationship Reinvention—but in a way that feels aligned to you.

When you join, this isn’t about “I love myself” being a mantra while you are still white-knuckling your way through your dayl. You’re learning how to become the woman who never has to question her worth again.

Why Partner with Me on this Journey?

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this isn't just emotional - it's neurological!

Because here's the truth:

When you trust yourself deeply, everything shifts. Boundaries get easier. Confidence becomes second nature. You stop bending yourself out of shape just to keep the peace.

Here’s what that actually looks like:
  • You stop over-explaining, over-giving, and over-proving. The people in your life either rise to meet you—or they don’t, and you stop losing sleep over it.
  • Decisions feel clear, easy, and yours. No more overthinking. No more guilt. Just self-trust that feels solid.
  • Your relationships shift—because you’ve shifted. The old patterns? Done. Instead, you start choosing and attracting relationships that actually meet you where you are.

This isn’t about forcing yourself to act confident. It’s about retraining your nervous system, your beliefs, and your behaviors so self-respect and emotional freedom become second nature.

🚫 No more questioning if you’re too much.
🚫 No more proving your worth to people who were never going to see it.
🚫 No more settling for the bare minimum in love, life, or anything in between. 

You’re About to Build a Life That Feels So Damn Good, You’ll Never Second-Guess Yourself Again.

Inside Your Relationship Reinvention, confidence, clarity, and self-worth won’t just be things you’re reaching for—they’ll be the way you live.

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  • You’re done just surviving. You want to actually feel good again. Not just “moving on,” not just distracting yourself. Real healing. Real confidence. Real peace

  • You’re tired of old patterns running the show. You’ve done the over-giving. The second-guessing. The questioning if you’re too much or not enough. You’re ready to rewrite the story.

  • You want relationships that feel safe, balanced, and mutual. No more chasing. No more convincing. No more wondering if you’re asking for too much.

  • You’re ready to trust yourself again. To set a boundary without spiraling. To walk away when something isn’t right. To choose yourself—without guilt.

  • You don’t just want to heal—you want to rise. This is about stepping into a version of you that moves through the world with confidence, ease, and unshakable self-respect.

  • You want to be surrounded by women who get it. Women who share a past experience of heartbreak and transformation, and who are committed to growing and evolving—without staying stuck in the pain. The emotional pain is real, but staying attached to it won’t get you what you want.


Is Your Relationship Reinvention for You?

  • Healing from toxic relationships: Learning how to recognize and manage emotional manipulation, gaslighting, or difficult narcissistic exes.

  • Dating confidently after divorce: Overcoming anxiety, avoiding old relationship patterns, and rebuilding trust in your relationship choices.

  • Co-parenting effectively: Managing boundaries, emotions, and difficult interactions with your ex-partner.

  • Guiding your children through divorce: Supporting your children emotionally while balancing your own healing and emotional needs.

  • Navigating your ex-partner repartnering: Handling complicated feelings like jealousy, grief, and anger, while maintaining your emotional clarity and strength.

  • Overcoming the fear of being alone forever: Releasing fear-based decisions, so you can create a deeply fulfilling, joyful life—single or partnered.

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And you’re especially in the right place if you’re currently facing practical challenges such as:

Is Your Relationship Reinvention for You?

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This is not for you if…

You’re looking for a quick fix.
This isn’t “3 steps to get over your ex.” It’s deep, lasting transformation.

You want someone else to change first.
This isn’t about fixing them. It’s about reclaiming you.

You’re not ready to let go of old stories.
If you’re more attached to being right about the past than creating a new future, this isn’t the space for you.

You’re waiting for the “perfect time” to start.
Healing happens when you decide you’re ready. Not when life makes it convenient.

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FAQ's

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Q: I’ve done therapy before. How is this different?

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Therapy helps you process your past. Your Relationship Reinvention helps you actively reshape your future. This isn’t just about healing—it’s about creating a new way of moving through the world with confidence, self-trust, and emotional freedom. You’ll go beyond understanding your patterns—you’ll change them in real time.

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Q: Will I actually get to connect with the other women in the group?

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Absolutely. With a small, intimate group of like-minded women, this isn’t just another program where you feel like a face in the crowd. You’ll be surrounded by women who share a common past experience and a shared vision for growth. The emotional pain is real, but staying attached to it won’t get you what you want. In this space, you’ll be supported, challenged, and truly seen.